Starting Spiritual Conversations
For many of us, starting spiritual conversations is like jumping off a cliff. They are leaps of faith. The first step is the hardest. Anxiety of the landing makes you cautious or wanting to flee the scene.
For you, starting spiritual conversations may be more challenging than explaining the Gospel. However, as "ambassadors" for Christ, He wants to help us!
Seek God's help. He is working at drawing people to Himself. Let Him know you are willing and available.
Colossians 4:2-6 provides Biblical guidelines in preparing your heart for sharing.
Devote yourselves to PRAYER, being WATCHFUL and THANKFUL. And pray for us too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ for which I am in chains. Pray that I may PROCLAIM it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always FULL OF GRACE seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:2-6
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Seek to genuinely care about others. Care about their physical, emotional and especially their spiritual needs. Ask God to help you.
Be empathetic about circumstances they are facing. Be quick to listen.
Caring about their spiritual well-being will help you be sensitive and watchful for opportunities to share your faith.
Get to know others better by asking questions. Questions that show you are interested to know more about them. What interests they have. How they feel about things. What is important to them. Find out what they like to talk about.
Ask questions that "draw them out" and develop trust in you. Ask about how they "think" or "feel" about things. Ask questions using "what", "how", "when", etc. as they encourage more than simple "yes" or "no" responses.
Genuine caring and being interested go a long way in building trust. Trust that will help them be open to your offer to talk about spiritual matters.
Sensitive to the Holy Spirit's promptings. He will guide you in caring, asking questions and showing you openings to share on a spiritual level with someone.
Learn to trust Him.
Share "Faith Stories"
NOT A SALVATION TESTIMONY
Faith stories are different than a "salvation testimony" where you tell what your life was like before you came to faith in Christ, how you came to faith in Christ and what your life is like now since you came to faith in Christ. (Faith stories are more about a specific circumstance and generally shorter to tell. They tend to speak to a similar circumstance or struggle of the person you are talking.) However, there are times when your salvation testimony is very appropriate to share.
For help in Preparing to Share Your Salvation Testimony
SALT THE EARTH
You are the salt of the earth. Matthew 5:13
Jesus picked salt as a trait of His followers. Salt draws out the flavor of food. As salty disciples of Christ, we need to sprinkle a little salt into our conversations simply to call attention to God and bring the extraordinary God into an ordinary world.
GOD'S HELP IN LIFE'S STRUGGLES
Faith Stories are short "testimonials" of how God has helped during a personal difficulty. Testimonies telling how your faith has made a positive difference during a struggle in your life. They tell specific ways a situation was influenced for the good because of your faith.
RELATE TO THE OTHER PERSON
As you ask questions and get to know other people, often they mention a problem, difficult situation or challenging circumstance they are dealing with. Perhaps you have had or may be dealing with a similar situation. However, your faith in God has been very helpful to you.
They may share about a difficult person at work. Perhaps you have had similar difficulties with someone at your workplace. However, the Lord has helped you with patience and forgiveness towards that person. You share a "Faith Story" telling how your faith in God has helped you deal with that person to have peace, be patient and be forgiving so anger doesn't control you.
Or they may share about a health issue. If God has helped you in the past when you had a health issue, share with them how God made a difference in your life at that time.
COMMON STRUGGLES WE FACE
CIRCUMSTANTIAL ISSUES where your faith may have helped you:
EMOTIONAL ISSUES where faith in God may have made a difference:
Avoid general statements and seek to share a "life experience". Talking about specific circumstances will make your story more genuine and credible. Share as much detail as you are comfortable and seems appropriate.
BRINGS GOD INTO THE CONVERSATION
Telling about your faith in God naturally brings Him into your conversation. He has become a natural part of your life. Therefore, be natural and mention how He is making a favorable difference in it.
CREATES INTEREST AND CURIOSITY
Sharing how you have found help often creates interest in others to hear more. If someone really wants help, they'll seek it out. If God is at work they likely will listen to how you discovered God's help for your life.
PEEK BEHIND THE CURTAIN
After sharing a Faith Story and bringing God into your conversation, ask a follow-up question to see if God is stirring their heart to hear more. Something like:
ALWAYS ASK PERMISSION TO SHARE
It shows respect. Their answer will tell you if you should proceed.
Also it helps you as a witness to not have to "force it to happen".
If they say "no", take it as an indication that God would not have you share with them at this time. Thank them and silently pray for an opportunity sometime in the future.
(The following assignment is one of the requirements to complete the course and receive a Certificate)
Assignment: Lesson 2